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listen48 wrote: 16 May 2026 16:35 It is not unusual for an escort to cum. I met some married woman who were using their high sex drive to earn money. Sometimes the husband knew but some didn't.

Nonsense, sorry. Most prostitutes never cum. They don't want to. If they did, it would make their job much more difficult and even dangerous. They sometimes do when they are with clients who they know for a long time, but 99% of the time they don't cum. There are even surveys and studies about sexworkers reflecting this.
Of course, some escorts spread such myths, because it's a sexy story that attracts customers.

Is that from your experience or what you have read? My experience tells me something different in certain situations.

When I was in university, we did a research project about sexworker culture. Interviewed several prostitutes about it, and read quite some amount of research about sexworkers.

Of course there may be exceptions, but in general it is absolutely necessary for any prostitute to remain in full awareness and control of the situation the entire time, which is contrary to having orgasms with clients. Many women (not all) need emotional connection to their partner to achieve orgasm, but emotional distance to the client is vital in any emotional demanding job, including sexwork. Also, most prostitutes in a relationship would consider it cheating in their partner to enjoy sex with a client.
Finally most prostitutes are oversaturated with intercourse and have less desire.
About 75% of voluntary sexworkers are in the business either because of dire financial situation or trauma-induced reasons. Neither reflects any interest in sexual pleasure. Add to this that many customers are focused on their own gratification only. So you can do the math how likely it is to experience a prostitute having a real orgasm...

Thank you Sorrownaut. I totally agree with you. I experienced the same in another research project in university. Sexworkers aren't in business for their own pleasure. Todo their job properly, they have to keep control in every situation.

Research and experience are two different things. I met escorts. These are woman who of course do it for money. But not all the time and when it suits them. My bookings were for 3 or 4 hours. A social meeting first where I would hand over the money and we would enjoy a drink and a chat in a bar, usually a hotel. I actually found the chat very educational. All of them enjoyed sex, but as I said they were not into it on a daily basis and certainly had no one controlling them. When people talk about research on sex workers I often wonder who they ask and how the research is carried out?