I "Came out" to my fiance, and got a great response!

[james_russell]

I've been on this forum for a long time but not posted before, but had a story to share from this last week.

I am comfortable with my fiance, of course since we are getting married, but my last secret with her was being a sex sound lover, I was always afraid as it is definitely something that the majority of people consider weird.

I was a little drunk and we were talking about our love of exhibitionism (We love teasing in public, being heard, fucking loud in hotels etc.) and the subject of actually fucking with somebody in the room came up, we both loved that idea and I mentioned how the sound of them would be a big turn on for me, and from their it segued into the idea of just hearing another couple and I just spilled all then and there. I was worried that I had just made the biggest social faux pas of my life. But the response I got surprised me.

We were staying in a hostel at the time so obviously there was plenty of sounds to hunt (I had actually snuck downstairs after she fell asleep the previous night to look for sounds) and she said "Let's do it tonight, there's a couple in the room under us". I couldn't believe it, this was like something out of a dream, usually hunting sounds is a solitary experience for me, but to actually do it with a partner was a super exciting idea.

So we did it, and we actually got lucky, around midnight we snuck down to outside the room we knew a couple was staying in, and they were going at it, it was super sexy and I was obviously turned on right away, we both just stood their kissing eachother while we listened to this other couple fucking, and
then went back to our own room and had the best sex of my life.

Has anybody else come out of the sex sound loving closet to a loved one? How did it go?

[thesoundguy]

Never came out, but when I was married a long time ago we lived in a duplex apartment and she worked 3rd shift, so I often got to hear the neighbors at it, so one day she was off work and in the living room watching TV and I went to bed and sure enough, they started up, well she came in the room and heard them, too, and made a basty remark, I told her it wasn't the first time I heard them ( true ), but that I paid it little attention ( a lie, of course ) and that I didn't care one wsy or the other.

She did not see it thay way and went and turned on the clock radio so neither of us could hear, then told them the next day that we could hear them, and pretty much frim that day forward whenever they devided to fuck they allways had the damned TV on in their room, which is why to this day U absolutely HATE a damn TV in any room where sex can occur.

[reggind]

Hehe, I think the line "I was married" says it all (smile)

[sc0tt-uk]

A few people in real life know about my hobby. Reactions have ranged from disgust, through politely non-plused, to experiments like them asking to listen to examples and hunting for new sounds for me/us to listen to together. The current missus is of the politely non-plused variety here, but she makes up for that in other ways

Glad the risk paid off for you sir!

[sound-addicted]

A very lovely (and hot) story! Congratulations to your relationship!

[moanspy]

I prefer to keep this to my self , that way i be more comfortable to go sound hunting , making some excuses and that it .

[stayfrosty]

Funnily enough this is something I was thinking about how I would broach with Mrs D, just recently she's been suggesting a few things which are a bit more adventurous ('joking' about swapping partners with a couple we know, admitting some lesbian tendencies, encouraging me to tell her fantasies about me fucking other women...) I honestly don't know how she'd react if she knew her orgasms were available to listen to on here. I know it wouldn't be a 'huh, no problem' response for sure. It would either be my bags on the drive or 'that's so hot'. Glad for you though James!

[Jeremy]

Hi James, it sounds like you have hit the jackpot! I'm sure some of this audience, myself included, would be fascinated to hear a recording of the situation you mention......!

[audiophile444]

My own experience has been different. My wife would never even consider recording our or other people's having sex but my lover of nearly 10 years got really turned on by sound and video recordings. So I made the pitch to both record our sessions and to record the love sounds of others, so we could replay them in the privacy of our homes. The problem was that she was too self-conscious when we were together - it inhibited her knowing she was being recorded- and we were never lucky enough to book a motel room near another couple, since we always met in the late morning or late afternoon, when the pickings were slim, at least in our area. Instead, we exchanged tapes of each other masturbating. She said she timed it so she could cum at the same time as I did on tape. She imagined our cuming together in the flesh, which we never were able to do, so this was an exciting new experience. I was able to do the same. It has alas been years since we have exchanged tapes because of reduced privacy concerns for each of us. And I have not even seen her in quite some time. It might be fun to get a recording of a woman getting off listening to a clip of her lover masturbating or a couple having sex. This could be a challenge perhaps to present to one of our female members. JulietH? James, you and your lady might try a mutual masturbation and recording session for the times you are apart. I wish you good sex with your fiancé! Audiophile.