Thinking about recording my friends wife

[hoochymamma]

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I will only take the risk when I know I will be at their house 2 days in a row.
Leaving the recorder more then a day is indeed to much of a risk.

What makes you so sure that they (a marrried couple with a kid) would choose to have loud sex
during those 2 days that you will be staying with them? Unless they happen to be raving sex maniacs,
your chances of capturing anything will be close to zero. So why bother? I'm sorry, but I don't
understand the logic of your plan.

What ? no ...
I won't be staying there, i will visit their place 2 days in a row.
So one day i will put the recorder and the other day take it back.

[hoochymamma]

We have a few rules on dos and don´ts and hiding a device inside someone else´s living place is on the strictly forbidden list for very good reasons.

Yes, i know the risk is high.
But it's not like i am placing a Sony recorder in plain site, i am placing a small Usb recorder which is hidden, and will be at their place for 24 hours TOPS.

So the chances of them actually looking at this very discrete spot in this 24 hours is really really low.

[sndprv]

What ? no ...
I won't be staying there, i will visit their place 2 days in a row.
So one day i will put the recorder and the other day take it back.

You've still got a very slim chance of capturing anything during that two-day time period. I mean, it's not like they're
a couple of young newlyweds on their honeymoon, are they? I have my fantasies too, but I'd like to think I'm not driven
by them, to the point that I start making irrational decisions.

Also, you're effectively bugging a private residence from inside the property, an act most regular members on this
forum won't condone. If you were staying with them, and overheard them, and recorded them, then that would
be a bit different, i.e. more acceptable.

[hoochymamma]

What ? no ...
I won't be staying there, i will visit their place 2 days in a row.
So one day i will put the recorder and the other day take it back.

You've still got a very slim chance of capturing anything during that two-day time period. I mean, it's not like they're
a couple of young newlyweds on their honeymoon, are they? I have my fantasies too, but I'd like to think I'm not driven
by them, to the point that I start making irrational decisions.

Also, you're effectively bugging a private residence from inside the property, an act most regular members on this
forum won't condone. If you were staying with them, and overheard them, and recorded them, then that would
be a bit different, i.e. more acceptable.

None of what we are doing in here is rational.
So in my case i put the recorder inside a house rather them stick it under my roommate door.
And in other cases you bug a couple in a motel room where they expect and paid for privacy.

Can't seem to understand why my case is any different.

The risk is higher ? sure.
Am i doing something morally wrong ? sure, but this forum is built over morally wrong decisions ...

[hoochymamma]

P.s

Because it's a usb recorder, i can just HIDE the file where the recordings are saved.
So if they find the usb and connect it to a computer, they won't see the recording, resulting in them thinking it's just a normal usb...

[sndprv]

None of what we are doing in here is rational.
So in my case i put the recorder inside a house rather them stick it under my roommate door.
And in other cases you bug a couple in a motel room where they expect and paid for privacy.

Can't seem to understand why my case is any different.

The risk is higher ? sure.
Am i doing something morally wrong ? sure, but this forum is built over morally wrong decisions ...

No, we don't. We record hotel guests from outside their rooms (in corridors) - not inside. It is forbidden
on this forum to upload sounds obtained from bugged hotel rooms.

Furthermore, hotel guests have not "paid for privacy," as there is no such thing as total privacy inside a hotel.

[Complete privacy is an illusion, anyway - ever since the microelectronics era began. There are highly sophisticated,
intrusive and unbelievable forms of surveillance and monitoring that have been deliberately kept secret from the
public for many, many years.]

[hoochymamma]

So now you are talking yourself to feel better about what you are doing ?

People her recorded their roommates, their siblings, their uncles, their friends.
Some of them even put a recorder under their bad.

When you record a couple by inserting a recorder beneath their door, you are, by definition, invading their privacy.
Even if you are just sitting out site of their room listening, you are invading their privacy.

So don't try to picture it like you are some kind of angel...

Like i said, this whole forum is built upon people doing something wrong.
Like, really really wrong.

But we are not giving any private info on the people we record, we are not destroying lives, we are doing it as a hobby.

So me trying to hear my friends wife in an intimate situation is just a wrong as you trying to record a young couple renting a hotel room for privacy.

[sndprv]

So now you are talking yourself to feel better about what you are doing ?

People her recorded their roommates, their siblings, their uncles, their friends.
Some of them even put a recorder under their bad.

They were either recording people inside their own property or people inside a property they were
sharing with. There's nothing wrong on this forum with recording roommates as long as the device you're using is
outside their room.

When you record a couple by inserting a recorder beneath their door, you are, by definition, invading their privacy.
Even if you are just sitting out site of their room listening, you are invading their privacy.

Nope. Look up the definition of the word 'privacy'. If I happen to overhear a couple having sex as I'm walking past
their hotel room door, I'm not invading their privacy. If anything, they are violating the privacy of other guests by
disturbing them, if those guests can hear them.

So don't try to picture it like you are some kind of angel...

Like i said, this whole forum is built upon people doing something wrong.
Like, really really wrong.

Well if that's what you believe, why did you decide to become a member a year ago?

But we are not giving any private info on the people we record, we are not destroying lives, we are doing it as a hobby.

So me trying to hear my friends wife in an intimate situation is just a wrong as you trying to record a young couple renting a hotel room for privacy.

No. You're planning to record your friend by surreptitiously hiding an audio recording device inside her property.
That's not the same thing as recording a couple outside their hotel room in a hotel corridor (i.e. a public area).

[hoochymamma]

So now you are talking yourself to feel better about what you are doing ?

People her recorded their roommates, their siblings, their uncles, their friends.
Some of them even put a recorder under their bad.

They were either recording people inside their own property or people inside a property they were
sharing with. There's nothing wrong on this forum with recording roommates as long as the device you're using is
outside their room.

When you record a couple by inserting a recorder beneath their door, you are, by definition, invading their privacy.
Even if you are just sitting out site of their room listening, you are invading their privacy.

Nope. Look up the definition of the word 'privacy'. If I happen to overhear a couple having sex as I'm walking past
their hotel room door, I'm not invading their privacy. If anything, they are violating the privacy of other guests by
disturbing them, if those guests can hear them.

So don't try to picture it like you are some kind of angel...

Like i said, this whole forum is built upon people doing something wrong.
Like, really really wrong.

Well if that's what you believe, why did you decide to become a member a year ago?

But we are not giving any private info on the people we record, we are not destroying lives, we are doing it as a hobby.

So me trying to hear my friends wife in an intimate situation is just a wrong as you trying to record a young couple renting a hotel room for privacy.

No. You're planning to record your friend by surreptitiously hiding an audio recording device inside her property.
That's not the same thing as recording a couple outside their hotel room in a hotel corridor (i.e. a public area).

Like i said, you are trying to feel better with your doing while you are 100% wrong about it.
If that make you sleep at night, have fun bro.

But the first think a reasonable man can do is to admit what he is doing is wrong.
I recorded my roommates at the college, and i know it's fucking wrong, but i keep on doing it regardless because it hurts no one.
You on the other hand, refuse to admit what you are doing is wrong.

So ... as long as it make you sleep better, keep telling that yourself.

P.s,
If what you are doing is not wrong, why are you afraid of cameras and staff walking in the corridor ?
So the dry law doesn't say "You can sit near someone door and listen to him having sex", yet if a staff will catch you, you will get kicked the fuck out of the hotel.

If the resident you were listening to will catch you, he will at the very least will get you kicked out of the hotel.

Why is that ? ... exactly, cus you are invading their privacy.

And it's not like you are walking near their door and suddenly hear a moan, you STALK them to their door and plant a usb beneath their door.

Cut the bullshit.

[sndprv]

P.s,
If what you are doing is not wrong, why are you afraid of cameras and staff walking in the corridor ?

We prefer to dodge cameras/staff because lurking about in hotel corridors (although not illegal) does
look like 'suspicious activity' - hotel staff may wrongly assume we are thieves, for example.

So the dry law doesn't say "You can sit near someone door and listen to him having sex", yet if a staff will catch you, you will get kicked the fuck out of the hotel.

Hotel staff members do not remove paying guests from hotels for lurking in corridors.
(Guests are evicted from hotels for smoking inside rooms or for failing to keep the noise
down after repeated warnings from hotel staff, for example.) They may be questioned or
perhaps warned because, yes, it looks suspicious. I do not recall one member on this forum
saying they were evicted from a hotel - not one. Some of us have been questioned by
staff, sure we have. But that's the risk. If you can't deal with it, find another 'hobby'.

[hoochymamma]

"Hey, what are you doing near this door ?"
"Just recording them having sex"
"Oh ok, thought you were a thief for a second... go on mate".

Yeah ... no.

This convo is going nowhere anyway.
If and when i will upload the recording, you are more then welcome to not listen to it.

Cheers.

[sndprv]

Whom you plan to record and how you plan to do it is your business. But this is a moderated forum with
rules, so it would be nice of you to read those rules before you upload anything.

[hoochymamma]

Well ...
Mission accomplished.

Managed to catch them,
It was really quick, but still, her moans are fucking sweet !

[Quadrophenia1]

Glad you were successful! Honestly, nobody is going to like everything they hear on site. But, we should try hard not to criticize and instead just do the detective work often required to find what we do like around here. Thanks again.

[hoochymamma]

Glad you were successful! Honestly, nobody is going to like everything they hear on site. But, we should try hard not to criticize and instead just do the detective work often required to find what we do like around here. Thanks again.

Thank you mate.
I mean, the odds were really against me on this,
Had a 10 hour windows (recorder battery length), they are married for like 3 years so i guess sex is not on daily basis.
Having a kid to all that and you would have guess the sex won't be that noisy.

Tho despite all this things, i got like 1 min of full moaning and like 3-4 min of occasional moans, which for me, is absolutely pure gold.
Hoped he would last longer since she really got into it in the end, but i am not greedy and will not attempt a second recording.