It seems like there are a lot of women here but maybe I am under the impression that they are, I honestly don't look enough into it to see who's male and who's female.
I'm not sure what I was thinking about in this particular instance but I have a lot of recurring daddy fantasies so probably something like that..
And the toy I was using is made by Tenga it's the Iroha Midori, the green one in the middle. It's powerful but soft like a marshmallow, comfortable to hold and rechargeable so no annoying batteries or cords! So it's one of my favorites.
http://iroha-tenga.com/en/iroha/
If I was using a wand it would be much much louder I think.
Thanks everyone for the wonderful comments! I will be sure to do this again sometime.